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Relationship Therapist

Cass Vollmer

I am a qualified therapist with an MA in Couples and Individual Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, registered with the BACP. 

Having spent my earlier career years in the business and education sectors, I retrained with Tavistock Relationships from 2016 as a psychotherapist specialising in relationships.

I am currently undertaking further training for a post-graduate diploma with Tavistock Relationships in Psychosexual Therapy, and working in this field in an NHS setting as well as private practice. I believe the sexual aspect of relationships and of who we are as individuals is crucial to our happiness, personal growth and relationship success.

A further area of interest to me is the impact of faith and religion in relationships.  If you are seeking a relationship therapist who can understand the pressures and challenges religious belief can bring, as well as the essential part of our identity that faith can be, do make contact to see if I can help you. 

I welcome all people and maintain an inclusive, open space for therapy.  It is important to find the right therapist for you.  If you would like to explore the possibility of relationship therapy or psychosexual therapy with me, please make contact through the form below.

If I have availability and it seems likely relationship or psychosexual therapy would be suitable for you, we can arrange to meet for an initial consultation which can last up to 75 minutes.  In this consultation we can think about the issues facing you and whether therapy with me is the best way forward for you. 

Therapy can be online or face to face in East Grinstead and costs between £70 and £100 for a 50 minute session.

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Sex is something you do. Sexuality is something “you are.”
Anna Freud